Love doesn’t rescue the pain. It protects the ones we love from going through the pain alone.

Lord Jesus thank you for demonstrating to us so powerfully that Love endures pain and long-suffering. Help us with those that we love, not to set out to rescue their pain, but to come alongside of them and help to carry their  burden, so they will not be alone. This is what you mean when you say love always protects. It creates a safe place.

Love… always protects. – 1 Corinthians 13:7
Devotionals Daily

Love Always Protects
by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, Love Is: Meditations for Couples on 1 Corinthians 13

Several years ago we were speaking in Washington, D.C., at a national marriage conference. With two hours of unstructured time one afternoon, we caught a cab and made our way to the Smithsonian Institute to view one of our nation’s most prized documents, the Declaration of Independence.

We stood in a long line for a brief look at this historical treasure. Before we reached the viewing area in front of the bulletproof glass I noticed that almost everyone said something to the guard who stood nearby. When our turn came, I studied the document for a few moments and then turned to the guard myself. “It looks like almost everyone makes a comment or asks a question of you before leaving,” I said. “What question do you hear the most?”

The guard didn’t pause. “Everyone,” he said, “wants to know how the Declaration of Independence is protected.”

He proceeded to tell us how each night it is mechanically transported into a huge vault sunk deep beneath the ground of the museum.

As we caught our return cab back to the conference, Leslie mused, “It’s so true. We want to be sure the things we love are safe and sound.” Paul makes the point as plain as possible: “Love always protects.”

But can it really? Can love safeguard your husband or wife from pain? Not really. To guarantee such a promise is absurd. But love can protect the one you love from walking in pain alone. In fact, some of life’s most piercing pain comes from not having a companion who walks with us. The Latin origins of protect literally mean to cover over or walk in front of. And that’s just how love’s power to protect works. It moves us to carry our partner’s pain as if it were our own.

It compels us to cover our partner with companionship.

Consider the painful times in your own life. Didn’t the most dramatic relief come when someone entered your situation with you and helped you carry your burden? This person literally protected you from further pain by carrying some of it away. Because of his or her love, your pain became less difficult to bear. And to take it a step further, love not only protects us by reducing our pain, it protects us by enabling healing to begin once the pain is present. In other words, love protects us from letting an emotional wound fester with anger and resentment.

Love knows how to keep its mouth shut and just listen. Love creates a safe place to talk it out and thus protects us from doing something foolish.

Love keeps us safe by its very nature.

It is a foolproof security system. It wraps us in acceptance and guards us in its embrace. When we are loved — when we are wanted, claimed, and enjoyed by another — nothing can hurt us to the core. Because love always protects.

Excerpted with permission from Love Is: Meditations for Couples on 1 Corinthians 13 by Les and Leslie Parrott, copyright Zondervan.

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What is love? What does God have to say about it? Look no further than the ancient letter from the apostle Paul to the Corinthians. This view of love stands above all the others. The beautiful, moving, and challenging chapter of 1 Corinthians 13 has defined real love for over 2,000 years.

In Love Is, relationship experts Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott bring together different translations of this well-known chapter of the New Testament – the Love Chapter, as it has been called – to inspire and offer direction to anyone who wants to love better. Pairing meditations with the translations, they offer compelling insights into this rich treasury of God-given love. Love Is offers affirmation and encouragement for couples of in any stage of relationship–engaged, newly married, or empty-nesters. This beautifully designed devotional book is a wonderful gift for engagements, weddings, and anniversaries. Love Is contains reflections on 1 Corinthians 13 featuring 16 different translations and paraphrases of the Bible’s beloved ‘Love Chapter’.

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