God is good, merciful, and kind. He didn’t cause your pain, but He’s ready to help you through it. — Christine Caine, Unashamed
You have power to choose freedom over shame
What We Don’t Reveal Can’t Heal
Christine Caine, Unashamed: Drop the Baggage, Pick Up Your Freedom, Fulfill Your Destiny
Hi, I’m Christine.
The story of the woman with the issue of blood [Luke 8:43-48] speaks to each of us. The power that healed her is available to us as well. That’s why I love this story! We all have shame wounds that are bleeding, and nothing we’ve done — no passage of time, no procedure, no ritual, no conversation or compensation — has been successful in closing them. Whether the cause of our shame was forced upon us or was the result of a choice we freely made — or as in my case, both — each of us bears that wound, that secret, that blemish. We feel unclean. But as the woman who took her shame to Jesus — who risked stepping out of the house, who in fear and trembling reached deep into her well of courage and confessed her need for Him right there in public — found healing, we can too.
I did… even though I felt powerful reluctance as my journey progressed.
It’s ironic, but the strongest resistance to the process of healing from shame is shame itself. We’re ashamed to admit that we need healing, that we have been damaged in ways that cause us shame. But to be healed, we must acknowledge all of our wounds. The journey from shame to freedom and a full life in Christ must be a blatantly honest, nothing-hidden voyage.
Like me, you probably spent years covering up your shame wounds — so why would you now want to uncover them and look at them? When you’re suffering from shame, the last thing you want to do is make yourself vulnerable.
Your vulnerability is one of the reasons you’re suffering from shame in the first place — so why would you want to open yourself up for more?
Because what we don’t reveal can’t be healed.
Our wounds need treatment, and the only way they’ll be healed is if we acknowledge them, uncover them, and hold them up to the One who can help.
But here’s the challenge: We’ve been shackled in the dark for so long that the darkness has crippled and immobilized us. We need the light of God to shine on us — shackles, shame, and all. The entrance of his Word gives light (Psalm 119:130). That light is the understanding that sets us free.
Until we let in the light — the truth — we will remain hindered, unable to fulfill our potential.
The apostle Paul teaches in Ephesians 5 that bringing what’s hidden in the dark — our secrets of shame — into the light, into God’s merciful presence, is how they lose their power over us.
For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) and find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. It is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. But everything exposed by the light becomes visible — and everything that is illuminated becomes a light. — Ephesians 5:8-13
God’s light is tender, not harsh. As you trust Him with your pain, He will gently shine His healing light on all your wounds. He is for you, not against you — and will never shame you or humiliate you (Romans 8:31). That kind of treatment is not in His nature. He is good, merciful, and kind. He didn’t cause your pain, but He’s ready to help you through it.
Jesus paid for your guilt and bore your shame. He carried it all to the cross. But there He left it!
He has borne our griefs, sicknesses, weaknesses, and distresses…
He carried our sorrows and pains…
He was wounded for our transgressions…
He was bruised for our guilt and iniquities…
The chastisement needful to obtain peace and well-being for us was upon Him…
With the stripes that wounded Him we are healed and made whole. — Isaiah 53:4-5 AMP
His death, burial, and resurrection were more than enough for you — for all of us. When He emerged from that tomb, He was no longer clothed in the sin and shame of this world. Sin and its shame were left entombed. Conquered. Vanquished. Paid for. Redeemed by His blood sacrifice. It is finished. The blood of Jesus has healed you. The blood of Jesus has set you free. Jesus was wounded for your healing; He bore your shame so you could live free (1 Peter 2:24).
So, will you remain in hiding or will you, like the bleeding woman, like me, seek Jesus to heal your guilt and shame? Will you risk living free?
God answered my cry and called me daughter.
He calls you daughter as well.
That is why He came.
Excerpted with permission from Unashamed: Drop the Baggage, Pick Up Your Freedom, Fulfill Your Destiny by Christine Caine, copyright Christine Caine.
What is it that we expect from God when we’re hiding what plagues us in shame? Maybe defining that fear and claiming the truths of Scripture is a good place to start the unshackling He has for us. I know I don’t want to live in the dark feeling ashamed and afraid any more. How about you? Are you ready to hear God the Father call you daughter? Come join the conversation on our blog! ~ Laurie McClure, Faith.Full
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Shame is everywhere we look. It hides in the shadows, lies to us, and shackles us in the prison of our past. It holds us back in ways we do not realize. But the truth is that God is not only more powerful than anything we’ve ever done but also stronger than anything ever done to us. We can grow in freedom and strength!
“I know. I’ve been there,” writes Christine. “I was schooled in shame. It has been my constant companion from my very earliest memories. I see shame everywhere I look in the world, including in the church. It creeps from heart to heart, growing in shadowy places, feeding on itself so that those struggling with it are too shamed to seek help from shame itself.”
In her passionate and candid style, Christine leads you into God’s Word where you will see for yourself how to believe that God is bigger than your mistakes, your inadequacies, your past, and your limitations. You will see that you are not fundamentally flawed and that you are worthy of acceptance. You have been set free.
Join the journey. Lay ahold of the power of Jesus Christ today and step into the future — His future for you—a beautiful, full, life-giving future, where you can even become a shame-lifter to others. Live unashamed!
In Unashamed, Christine reveals the often-hidden consequences of shame — in her own life and the lives of so many Christian women — and invites you to join her in moving from a shame-filled to a shame-free life. Regular $19.99. Sale $15.99. With promo code CHRISTINE: $11.99
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In this five-session video Bible study, author and teacher Christine Caine leads you into God’s Word to find out how to believe that God is bigger than your mistakes, your inadequacies, your past and your limitations. With Jesus you can step into a beautiful, full, life-giving future filled with purpose! Regular $12.99. Sale $11.99. With promo code CHRISTINE: $7.99
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